Perinatal Counseling
(Pregnancy-Postpartum)
Perinatal counseling is the term to describe mental health disorders which begin anytime from the point of conception through ~1 year postpartum. This includes all the challenges which may come with growing a family, such as: family planning, fertility, trying to conceive, pregnancy, childbirth, postpartum, birth trauma, adoption, pregnancy/infant loss, and more. If left untreated, symptoms of Perinatal Mood and Anxiety Disorders can continue for years. However, with the right help, you will feel well again.
Perinatal Mood and Anxiety Disorders:
Are you feeling overwhelmed? Constantly worrying about everything that could happen to your baby? Unable to sleep even when given the opportunity?
Maybe you are feeling irritable, angry even? Having extreme feelings of regret or guilt? Feeling hopeless, foggy, or numb? Having negative thoughts about your baby or yourself?
Is being a parent not quite what you expected? Do you think your baby would be better off without you? Or maybe you just don’t feel like yourself?
If you relate to any of these experiences, you may be experiencing a Perinatal Mood and Anxiety Disorder (PMADs). You are not alone and are in the right place.
With the right help, you will feel better.
Wherever you are in this journey, perinatal counseling can help. Whether you are a new parent, experienced parent, birthing person, adoptive parent, non-birthing parent—you deserve to feel well.
Feel free to bring your baby to our sessions. If your baby is on the move, it gets a bit harder to conduct session with baby present. However, I never want childcare to be a barrier to services-if this is a concern let’s chat.
"You are not alone. You are not to blame. With help, you will be well." - PSI
"You are not alone. You are not to blame. With help, you will be well." - PSI
Perinatal Counseling Involves:
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Trying to conceive
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Ferility
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Pregnancy
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Postpartum
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Adjusting to parenthood
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Identity and Self-Discovery
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Relationship Dynamics
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Birth Trauma or Related Traumatic Experiences
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Pregnancy/Infant Loss
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PMADs-Perinatal Mood and Anxiety Disorders-are mental health disorders beginning sometime during pregnancy through ~1 year postpartum. These disorders are classified as Mood disorders (Depression, Bipolar, & Psychosis) and Anxiety disorders (Generalized Anxiety, Panic Disorder, OCD, PTSD). These disorders impact daily functioning for the individual.
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Postpartum depression is often confused with the baby blues. The baby blues occur in about 80% of women and are due to hormone fluctuation at time of birth and acute sleep deprivation. Baby blues will resolve on it’s own and will last no longer than 2 weeks. When experiencing baby blues, you are mostly still happy, however may have mood swings, tearfulness, and irritability.
Perinatal depression on the other hand is characterized by depressed mood most of the day, nearly every day. Symptoms may include loss of interest in activities, feeling overwhelmed and unable to cope, difficulty concentrating, lack of connection towards baby, feelings of hopelessness or worthlessness, excessive worry or guilt, irritability, thoughts of death or suicidal thoughts, or generally not feeling like yourself.
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Perinatal anxiety typically involves excessive anxiety and worry, often times about you or your baby’s health/wellbeing, with an inability to control or release these worries. Symptoms also include ruminating, irritability, restlessness, difficulty concentrating, and feeling “on edge.” Often times, a seemingly small thing may trigger a spiral of worry or fears. You may experience muscle tension or strain, racing heart, shortness of breath, or GI distress.
Perinatal anxiety may also manifest as a panic disorder. Perinatal panic disorder involves episodes (often described as “panic attacks”) of intense fear or discomfort. These episodes can include shortness of breath, chest pain, rapid heart rate, dizziness, trembling, sensation of choking, or sensations of numbness or tingling. You may feel as though you are losing control or it may even escalate to an intensity where you fear you are going to die. Additionally, you may have anxiety around experiencing another episode and feel consumed by these thoughts and worries.
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Perinatal OCD is an anxiety disorder characterized by obsessions and compulsions. Common symptoms of perinatal OCD include intrusive thoughts about harm coming to your baby and a spiral of “what if” thinking. Individuals will engage in behaviors either to avoid these thoughts or fears of harm from happening, or in attempts to minimize these triggers. Additional symptoms include: intrusive thoughts, guilt and shame around thoughts/behaviors, and hypervigilence. Perinatal individuals are at 1.5-2 times greater risk for developing OCD than the general population.
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Perinatal psychosis involves hallucinations, paranoia, delusions or strange beliefs, hyperactivity, decreased need for or inability to sleep, rapid mood swings, and extreme irritability. Some of the main risk factors for perinatal psychosis are a personal or family history of bipolar disorder or a previous psychotic episode. Perinatal psychosis is extremely serious and emergency intervention is necessary. **If you think you or your partner is experiencing psychosis call 911 or go to the emergency room immediately** Perinatal psychosis is temporary and treatable with the right help.
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Other perinatal mood and anxiety disorders include perinatal bipolar and post traumatic stress disorder.
Perinatal bipolar involves an episode of mania, characterized by symptoms of: elevated mood, euphoria or agitation, decreased need for sleep, racing thoughts, increased productivity, pressure speech, and increased energy.
Perinatal PTSD occurs after experiencing a trauma related to pregnancy, birth, or postpartum. This can be any unexpected or unplanned for event. Symptoms of PTSD may include: re-experiencing of trauma, flashbacks, nightmares, avoiding triggers associated with trauma, increased arousal (hypervigilance, irritability difficulty sleeping), and feelings of guilt, depression, hopelessness, anxiety, and self-blame.
✺ Frequently asked questions ✺
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About 1 in 7 women and 1 in 10 men are impacted by Perinatal Mood and Anxiety Disorders. Depression and anxiety are the most common complication of childbirth and getting help is crucial to feeling well.
Research has shown postpartum depression is a universal experience, with similar rates throughout the world. PMADs do not discriminate and can impact anyone. If you are experiencing any symptoms please know you are not alone. And with help, you will get better.
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If something does not feel right or if you feel you are struggling, you need some support.
PMADs are the most under-diagnosed obstetric complication due to lack of understanding/awareness, stigma, fear of judgment, and more. Pregnancy/postpartum are innately hard and everyone needs help during this time. You do not need to struggle alone and you deserve to feel well.
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Yes! Research has found about 1 in 10 fathers experience paternal mood and anxiety disorders. Partners’ lives change drastically when they welcome a baby and they are exposed to majority of the same stressors as the birthing parent. Adjusting to a new baby is extremely hard, and partners’ need support as well. If you or your partner are struggling, please reach out to get the care you need to feel better again.
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Yes—Post-Adoption Depression (PAD) has similar symptoms and rates as postpartum depression (PPD). About 1 in 7 moms and 1 in 10 partners experience post-adoption depression. This can include adjusting to new parenting role, difference in expectations and reality post-placement, issues with bonding, relationship changes, uncertainty around big decisions, unresolved fertility issues, and more.
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While research of the LGBTQIA+ community is less extensive, LGBTQIA individuals are actually at a higher risk for experiencing PMADs due to exposure to many additional stressors, such as: the medical complexity of starting a family, financial expenses, and difficult decision-making. Further, LGBTQIA individuals have to deal with harmful discrimination, sometimes resulting in a lack of social support, not being viewed as the “real” parent, denial of parental rights, and other extremely hurtful experiences. All of these stressors can have significant impacts on mental health and wellbeing. Adjusting to parenthood is hard, and adding additional stressors to the equation can make it even more challenging. Everyone needs and deserves support to feel well.
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I strive to always be inclusive and use language that reflects this. Terms I use include: mother, father, caregiver, parent, birthing person, non-birthing person, partner etc.—however, please let me know the language you prefer.
(Unfortunately, much of the large research studies done on perinatal mood and anxiety disorders are based on cis-gendered, heterosexual couples—I try to always use inclusive language, however gendered terms on my site are used when referencing these research findings.)
Postpartum Support International
PSI offers direct support and resources for individuals and families experiencing perinatal mood and anxiety disorders (PMADs). They offer a help line, over 50 different specialty online support groups, information and education on PMADs, and more.
Perinatal Resources:
National Maternal Mental Health Hotline
The National Maternal Mental Health Hotline provides free confidential support, resources, and referrals to any pregnant and postpartum person facing mental health challenges. They have the option to call or text for support on a 24/7/365 basis and can provide help in both English and Spanish.
1-833-TLC-MAMA
Mom’s Mental Health Initiative
MMHI is a Wisconsin based non-for-profit organization “dedicated to helping moms navigate perinatal mood and anxiety disorders by sharing information, connecting them to resources and providing peer-driven support.” They offer peer support, resources, and useful information/education on PMADs.
The Policy Center for Maternal Mental Health
Policy Center for Maternal Mental Health is a national organization with the mission to “close the gaps in maternal mental health care.” They provide access to information, education, and resources.
The Periscope Project
The Periscope Project is a Wisconsin resource connecting individuals to healthcare professionals who specialize in perinatal services. This resource is available for providers to find referrals for clients/patients to get the specialized care they need.
Feel Everything
Counseling
Offering Telehealth counseling services in Wisconsin and Illinois.
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